Thursday, November 24, 2011

Refuse to Give Up



Refuse to give up


We are what we think.


All that we are arises


With our thoughts.


With our thoughts,


We make our world.



Lord Buddha




A child was born in 1880, who, nineteen months later, lost her senses of hearing and sight. Think that can a deaf and blind child learn speaking or ever know the ways of the world? Yet this child grew to tell us: “Although the world is full of suffering, it is full also of the overcoming of it.” At 10 this deaf and blind child wished to speak, and she did it. This child thought in her heart – “Some day I shall enter college.” Years later she received her bachelors degree from the Radcliffe College. Universities of Harvard and Temple, U.S.; Glasgow, Scotland; Berlin, Germany; Delhi, India; and Witwatersrand in Johannesburg, South Africa offered her honorary doctoral degrees. Brazil’s Order of the Southern Cross, Japan’s Sacred Treasure, the Philippines’ Golden Heart, Lebanon’s Gold Medal of Merit, United States of America’s the Presidential Medal of Freedom were only few prestigious prizes bestowed upon her. A superb hurricane she was to send back the devastating waves that came to crush her; we know her by the name of Helen Keller!


When I read her autobiography – The Story of my Life– I was filled with shame, thankfulness and encouragement. I found it difficult to face myself; yet a drive to work and overcome my fears and weaknesses terrifically shook my soul and body.


Helen Keller brought light and enjoyment in her life and continues enlightening the lives of numerous others because she had made her world with her thoughts. Her positive thinking prompted her to find ways and take actions to realise her ambitions despite her so-called disabilities. As she thought that she will do it, she shook off the limitations her deafness and blindness had imposed upon her.


Lesson learnt:


Your circumstances won’t be able to prevent you from achieving success if you think you can do it! Lord Buddha: “We are what we think. / All that we are arises / With our thoughts. / With our thoughts, / We make our world.”


You will never hear a negative comment from successful people. True, at some points they might have uttered pessimism, but sometimes it is natural for humans to feel low.


Once a man became so hopeless and frustrated that he wished to die. But he refused to give up. He made a comeback and went on to write immortal books and earned so much success that his name H. G. Wellsis permanently engraved in the list of great people.


Who can prevent you from making a comeback like Wells did?


Think an answer before reading further...


Do not read, first think an answer.


No one – nothing has the power to stop you! Numerous powers are lying in disuse within yourself, use them. You are not using even a little part of your abilities. I am saying this because I have read what William James, who is referred as the founder of modern psychology, has said for you. Read the words of that great personality:




“Compared with what we ought to be, we are only half awake. We are making use of only a small part of our physical and mental resources. Stating the thing broadly, the human individual thus lives far within his limits. He possesses powers of various sorts which he habitually fails to use.”


Success is your right. Except your negative thoughts, no one, no circumstances can deprive you from claiming it. People who blame nonexistent things like luck or chance remain far from success. But the fact that you are reading this post till this point proves that you do not belong to that bunch. You may have become hopeless like Wells, but you can certainly become successful as him as well.


Do you have the courage to make a comeback?


Monday, November 14, 2011

Road to Success



Road to Success


“As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.”



Holy Bible



“Some day I shall be the president.”



Abraham Lincoln






As a first step to develop your personality, think what you think about yourself. Do you think you have the right kind of attitude and abilities that will enable you to be successful? Note that a “yes” from you would carry credibility only if you are putting forth a significant amount of efforts to move closer to your goal, because successful personalities prove beyond doubt that nothing is achieved without terrific efforts. If you are not executing efforts and answering “Yes,” then being polite I would like to tell you that you are dishonest with yourself.


Lincoln thought deep in his heart “Some day I shall be the president.” He proved that his thinking is honest because he worked diligently to achieve his aim. Bible: “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.”


When will you start giving the required efforts from? From next month? From next week? From tomorrow?


No! From self experience I know that such resolutions are self-deceiving. The best time to employ yourself at a good work is the present moment. Feel shame for your inactivity, and if you are really apologetic, you must take the road to success at this very moment. Your movement ought to have such force that it also compensate for the time you have wasted.


You might frown at my unsympathetic words. True, I am not even a tiny drop of liquid in the vast ocean. But even if I had been like Lincoln, I would have not sympathised with you. You and I need motivation, much better if it is self motivation, not sympathy.


We have hidden powers like Lincoln or Newton had – they discovered and used those powers to improve their own, as well as the lives of numerous others. We are so big, motivated, powerful etc. that we don’t need sympathy. Sympathy of another human, let him be however elevated, makes a man dependent and resultantly he remains far from achieving the true success. Only God can sympathise with his creations. Dependence on God is the only dependence that makes us independent.


At this moment you don’t have a teacher or boss who could discipline yourself. In order to swing yourself into action, like successful personalities you need to exercise self-discipline, and self-discipline bears sweeter fruits than the discipline which is imposed upon you because it requires a greater effort of the will and significantly solidifies it. (The greater the plough, the better the yield.) This absence of a higher authority has provided you the opportunity to really test your will and sincerity. Will you be able to prove to yourself that you have the devotion and single-mindedness you need to succeed?



Then write out the answers to the following questions:

  • What is my goal?
  • How important it is for me to achieve it?
  • What actions until now I have taken to get closer to it?
  • Were there any faults or weaknesses in my approach?
  • What I must do to eliminate them?
  • What I need doing to accelerate my progress?

Will be writing the next post for those who think themselves to be weak or untalented as many successful personalities did before achieving success. Till then, you must also answer the aforementioned questions, motivate and change your thinking on your own because you can certainly do it.

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